Saturday, July 31, 2010

What's Next to Understanding

You've laid all your defenses. You've tried to open up and broaden your perspective. You've considered what's moral and immoral, from ethical to unethical. You've heard the story, you've tried to respond appropriately. You've tried to understand the person. But what's next in line?

Sometimes, trying to understand a person is really hard most especially when your brain waves do not match. But then again, when you've understood the person, where do you go after?

If you try to be give an advice, you'd probably end up arguing with that person (given that both of you have different vantage points.) And when you end up trying to advise the person (putting yourself in the person's perspective), you'd end up being a hypocrite.

Oh life.

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